화성에서 온 남자 금성에서 온 여자12 3-8 금성인이 배운 것 WHAT THE VENUSIANS LEARNED금성인이 배운 것 The Venusians also found peace of mind when they finally understood that a Martian going into his cave was not a sign that he didn't love her as much.금성인들도 마침내 남자가 그녀를 사랑하지 않기 때문에 동굴에 가는 것이 아님을 이해했을 때, 평화를 찾을 수 있었습니다. They learned to be more accepting of him at these times because he was experiencing a lot of stress.그들은 그가 큰 스트레스를 느끼고 있기 때문에 그를 더 받아줘야 한다는 것을 배.. 2020. 7. 9. 3-6 여자가 대화를 원할 때 남자의 반응은?(1) Chapter.3-6 HOW MEN REACT WHEN WOMEN NEED TO TALK여자가 대화를 원할 때 남자의 반응은? (1)When women talk about problems, men usually resist. A man assumes she is talking with him about her problems because she is holding him responsible. The more problems, the more he feels blamed. He does not realize that she is talking to feel better. A man doesn't know that she will appreciate it if he just listens. 여자가 문제에.. 2020. 6. 29. 3-5 대화를 통한 위안 찾기 FINDING RELIEF THROUGH TALKING대화를 통한 위안 찾기 When a woman is stressed she instinctively feels a need to talk about her feelings and all the possible problems that are associated with her feelings. When she begins talking she does not prioritize the significance of any problem. If she is upset, then she is upset about it all, big and small. She is not immediately concerned with finding solutions to.. 2020. 6. 28. 3-3 동굴안에서 위안 찾기 화성에서 온 남자 금성에서 온 여자Chapter.3-3 FINDING RELIEF IN THE CAVE 3-3장 동굴에서 위안 찾기 When a man is stressed he will withdraw into the cave of his mind and focus on solving a problem. He generally picks the most urgent problem or the most difficult. He becomes so focused on solving this one problem that he temporarily loses awareness of everything else. 남자가 스트레스 받았을 때, 그는 마음의 동굴로 철수하여 문제 해결에 몰두합니다. 그는 대게 가장.. 2020. 6. 25. 3-1 남자는 그들의 동굴로 들어가고 여자는 이야기를 한다. 화성에서 온 남자와 금성에서 온 여자Chapter3. Men Go to Their Caves and Women Talk3장. 남자는 그들의 동굴로 들어가고 여자는 이야기를 한다. One of the biggest differences between men and women is how they cope with stress. Men become increasingly focused and withdrawn while women become increasingly overwhelmed and emotionally involved. At these times, a man's needs for feeling good are different from a woman's He feels better by solv.. 2020. 6. 23. 2-8 남자가 가사개선위원회에 거부감을 느낄 때 화성에서 온 남자 금성에서 온 여자 Chapter.2-8 WHEN A MAN RESISTS THE HOME-IMPROVEMENT COMMITTEE 남자가 가사개선위원회에 거부감을 느낄 때 When a man resists a woman's suggestions she feels as though he doesn't care; she feels her needs are not being respected. As a result she understandably feels unsupported and stops trusting him. At such times, by remembering that men are from Mars, she can instead correctly understand why he.. 2020. 6. 22. 2-7 여자가 남자의 해결책에 거부감을 느낄 때 화성에서 온 남자 금성에서 온 여자 Chapter.2-7 WHEN A WOMAN RESISTS A MAN'S SOLUTIONS 여자가 남자의 해결책에 거부감을 느낄 때 When a woman resists a man's solutions he feels his competence is being questioned. As a result he feels mistrusted, unappreciated, and stops caring. His willingness to listen understandably lessens. By remembering that women are from Venus, a man at such times can instead understand why she is resistin.. 2020. 6. 21. 2-6 미스터 수리공과, 가사개선위원회의 변론 화성에서 온 남자 금성에서 온 여자 Chapter.2-6 IN DEFENSE OF MR. FIX-IT AND THE HOME-IMPROVEMENT COMMITTEE 2-6 미스터 수리공과, 가사개선위원회의 변론 In pointing out these two major mistakes I do not mean that everything is wrong with Mr. Fix-It or the home-improvement committee. These are very positive Martian and Venusian attributes. The mistakes are only in timing and approach. A woman greatly appreciates Mr. Fix-it, as lon.. 2020. 6. 20. 2-4 조언하는 것을 포기하라 화성에서 온 남자 금성에서 온 여자Chapter.2-4 GIVE UP GIVING ADVICE 조언하는 것을 포기하라 Without this insight into the nature of men, it's very easy for a woman unknowingly and unintentionally to hurt and offend the man she loves most. 이런 남성에 대한 통찰력이 없다면, 여자는 가장 사랑하는 남자에게 자기도 모르는 사이에 본이 아니게 상처를 주고 실망을 안겨 줄 수 있습니다. For example, Tom and Mary were going to a party. Tom was driving. After about twenty minutes and going ar.. 2020. 6. 18. 2-2 화성에서의 삶 화성에서 온 남자 금성에서 온 여자 Chapter 2-2 WE ON MARS 화성에서의 삶(화성의 우리들) Martians value power, competency, efficiency, and achievement. 화성인들은 힘과 능력, 효율, 성취도를 중요하게 여깁니다. They are always doing things to prove themselves and develop their power and skills. 그들은 자신들을 입증하기 위해서나, 힘과 기술을 발전시키기 위해 항상 노력합니다. Their sense of self is defined through their ability to achieve results. 결과를 성취하는 능력을 통해 자기 존재를 정의한다. They expe.. 2020. 6. 13. 2-1 미스터 수리공과 가사 개선 위원회 화성에서 온 남자 금성에서 온 여자 Chapter 2. Mr. Fix-It and the Home-Improvement Committee 제2장. 미스터 수리공과 집안 개선 위원회 The most frequently expressed complaint women have about men is that men don't listen. 여자들이 남자에 대해 가장 보편적으로 많이 표현하는 불만 중의 하나는 남자는 여자의 말을 귀기울여 듣지 않는다는 것입니다. Either a man completely ignores her when she speaks to him, or he listens for a few beats, assesses what is bothering her, and then proudly p.. 2020. 6. 11. 1-2 우리의 차이점 기억하기 화성에서 온 남자 금성에서 온 여자1-2 우리의 차이점 기억하기(REMEMBERING OUR DIFFERENCES) Without the awareness that we are supposed to be different, men and women are at odds with each other.우리가 다를 수 밖에 없다는 것을 인지하지 않고서는, 남자와 여자는 서로 조화롭지 못할 것입니다. We usually become angry or frustrated with the opposite sex because we have forgotten this important truth.우리가 보통 이성에게 화가 나거나 실망하는 것은 이 중요한 진리를 잊어버렸기 때문입니다. We expect the oppos.. 2020. 6. 8. 이전 1 다음
